Here's sending out good cheers, well wishes, love and light and nothing but optimism as we usher in the new year. It's been an exhausting year and I had to face my most trying uphill yet. However, all the blessings, wonderful opportunities and surprises combined more than made up for it. Happy to again be placed in the position to contribute, give what I can and to have the strength to constantly come from the position of love, no matter the circumstances. Thank you, God!
A little window that allows a peek into what goes on in the head of this peculiar soul who is very passionate about the unfolding of one's truth, writing, mountains, nature and making a contribution... It's all about a journey to self-actualisation, self-love and the inevitable outward outpouring of love as a result... It's all about acceptance..Of connection, love and affirmation...
Thursday, December 31, 2015
Friday, December 18, 2015
Driving Home
Saturday, November 21, 2015
I Know
Wednesday, November 18, 2015
Remote Mothering (Being There and Defying the Distance)
Then in the middle of a meeting, Tatay sent me photos through viber, signaling that the family is celebrating. I was dying to talk to them then but the discussion was critical :( By the time I was able to get through, Rod was no longer answering properly, probably getting ready to sleep already. After a while, Tatay called through Skype and my heart sank noting the "dark" background. It meant the lights in the bedroom are off. The kids are asleep.
Good thing they were just about to fall asleep. Forest was wide awake and was even chatty, saying repeatedly, "Sleepy ang birthday boy, Nanay!" :) She was so cute.
Rod was already dozing off when Tatay brought the camera to his face :P I engaged him in a conversation and that is when I cried. I asked him about his birthday and how his day was. When I asked him if there was a cake, Forest quipped, "Pizza!" (Rod wanted it so). When I asked what the flavor was, Rod replied it was pepperoni and I was like, "It's meat!" Rod's retort was really funny -- "It was the only thing that was buy-one-take-one." Hahaha! Stringy Tatay huh?
The best thing about today though was that Rod woke up when I asked him if we could pray together for his birthday. We prayed for the usual, that he grow up to be really kind-hearted and be able to make a contribution in his own, little way. We pray that he be guided towards the direction of his dreams and that they all come true. We prayed that he be gifted with mentors and quality friendships. I'm lucky enough in that aspect and I'm wishing the same thing for the children. I can see that Rod appreciated the whole thing and I draw comfort in that.
All in all, Rod's birthday is simple. There was no big party. But I certainly went overboard this year, sharing old blogs as the day neared. The funny thing was that Tatay had to point out to me that he and Rod actually find it tiring to read through all of my musings. So the "sentimental" in me had to step aside to choose blogs that are short and with photos. Better that than having them going through the motion of conversation in a forced manner. It was supposed to be a joyful sharing, not a burden. I know in time, Rod would be able to appreciate the long letters and entries next time...
So yeah, the lengths that I have to go through just to defy the fact that we are apart. I know there is nothing I can do about the physical distance but I've tried in the past -- and there is always a way -- to move mountains just to make the children feel that I am still "there." "Being there" is something I would always work hard at establishing. I know full well that nothing could compensate for the physical presence, to be able to give an actual hug, a kiss... But given the situation, there is nothing I can do about that but I could definitely find creative ways to demonstrate that yes, Nanay is still there for them, in more ways than one. That, and to be able to show them clearly just how much I love them and how much they mean to me. But yeah, soon for the real, warm hugs... I love you so much, Rod.
Sunday, November 15, 2015
T stands for Tatay Teammate
I watched amused as Tatay read the letter I had written for Rod when I was pregnant with him. I knew it was long and I was pretty sure Tatay would not have the patience to see it through till the end.
True enough, after a mouthful of somewhat difficult English words, Tatay's brow came together and then he said, "Ayaw taasa kaayo, Nay! (Don't make it too long, Nanay!) I almost laughed out loud. Instead, I retorted in an affirming tone, " Yeah, I know. But that's how that is since it was heartfelt." I did agree about looking for a shorter post and made a mental note.
But yeah, I appreciate the fact that Tatay is again one with me on this. On our second day, he was even the one urging me to share the day's installment so that he and Rod can read it when they arrive at home later that day.
Thank you, Tatay for recognizing the importance of this little project. It comforts me no end knowing that you also value nurturing our relationship with the children. Know that you made me truly happy. Salamat.
Friday, November 13, 2015
100 Hair Strokes
I miss you, Baby Forest. Nanay can't wait so I can enjoy your hugs and kisses again. While we exchange a lot of those through our skype calls, I know they could never compensate for the real thing. I love you!
Wednesday, October 28, 2015
To My Daughter by Heart, Janin
Thursday, October 22, 2015
Ageing Gracefully
Saturday, August 08, 2015
Soon
It's that smile and laughter that readily springs when we talk;
It's that lightness that fills me at the very thought of you;
It's the wanting to have your name escape my lips in every five sentences or so;
Its the overwhelming desire to share everything with you;
A thought, a line, an experience, a moment;
It's the wanting to touch, to reconnect, to intertwine in time;
I don't ask for much (though how I long for so much more);
I just want to be at the receiving end of the love reflected in your eyes...
Saturday, May 30, 2015
Little Things
Saturday, May 09, 2015
Safety Issues
Thursday, April 30, 2015
Little Chefs
Monday, April 27, 2015
Summer Workshop 2015
Tuesday, March 17, 2015
Pain
Intensifies
Tears insides apart
Reasons
Holds on to faith
Hope springs anew
Pain abates
Yet never departs
It's a constant ache
Leaving heart tender
Bruised
Scarred
Monday, March 02, 2015
Dora
Rod: Hello, Dora. (Bwahahaha) Oo nga, Nay. Di masyado maganda.
Forest: Di gud, Nay. Bagay sa yo. Maganda ka!
Rod: Well, boys kami ni Tatay so...